tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6555148914820940850.post6811589104572892623..comments2023-10-29T05:15:56.348-04:00Comments on Symphonic Discord: Don't be sad...for too longUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6555148914820940850.post-63585081189967124532008-09-16T18:05:00.000-04:002008-09-16T18:05:00.000-04:00i agree but i also think you shouldn't always be e...i agree but i also think you shouldn't always be extremely happy all the time.Mrs. Cullenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10550840474541352872noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6555148914820940850.post-80791631690905444682008-09-16T12:12:00.000-04:002008-09-16T12:12:00.000-04:00I've learned that those psycho-babble "steps to gr...I've learned that those psycho-babble "steps to grieving" really do serve a purpose. I've lost relatives, friends and pets. If we allow ourselves to go through the motions and feelings of grief rather than deny those tsunamies of feelings we will be able to cope and function with more ease. In other words, "snap out of it" faster. Life does go on, but there is a special time for grieving that shouldn't be ignored.<BR/><BR/>-shock/denial <BR/>-inward anger <BR/>-outward anger <BR/>-depression <BR/>-acceptancefuelMybrainhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09099443635642906390noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6555148914820940850.post-87022169115667285702008-09-15T04:07:00.000-04:002008-09-15T04:07:00.000-04:00for this reason, I don't always agree with psychol...for this reason, I don't always agree with psychology and therapy. They just want to bring it up over and over...and every time, it's sad. Isn't that more of "not letting go" than actually not speaking of it? I dunno.<BR/><BR/>It's funny, I was going to post about my dad's passing because tomorrow is his birthday ...but decided against it. <BR/><BR/>...and then I ended up here. maybe it's a sign ;)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15540367324651819913noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6555148914820940850.post-29050246546724048942008-09-14T11:50:00.000-04:002008-09-14T11:50:00.000-04:00^ Alhamdulilah^ AlhamdulilahArtistic Logichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14784627479471195375noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6555148914820940850.post-17177367664267218272008-09-14T09:02:00.000-04:002008-09-14T09:02:00.000-04:00When I lost my grandfather, I felt like I had to s...When I lost my grandfather, I felt like I had to stay in that state of grief forever. I felt like if I didnt then I would forget him and lose his memory. And for a bit of time I was angry with myself when I wasn't literally crying and mourning any longer because I DID feel like I was forgetting him.I kept asking myself the question, "How can I move on with my life when he's not around?" And in some weird, twisted way I wanted to grieve forever....<BR/><BR/>And it's kinda ironic because I read "Dont be Sad" a month after his passing away, and its that exact quote that you put up that I read over and over that helped me slowly,but surely, stop grieving for him,and not necessarily move on from his death, but remember his life instead.<BR/><BR/>Alhamdullilah.Farnnayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09833826535761502269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6555148914820940850.post-72756453366642345982008-09-14T06:36:00.000-04:002008-09-14T06:36:00.000-04:00interesting...very interesting(for once constructi...interesting...very interesting<BR/><BR/>(for once constructive attitude isn't the first to comment...)Artistic Logichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14784627479471195375noreply@blogger.com