tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6555148914820940850.post1329178043163603600..comments2023-10-29T05:15:56.348-04:00Comments on Symphonic Discord: Family FeudUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6555148914820940850.post-3712041254175270372010-03-26T09:02:45.975-04:002010-03-26T09:02:45.975-04:00a couple of reasons
1- we assume our family will u...a couple of reasons<br />1- we assume our family will ultimately forgive us <br />2- we can be 'real' with them<br />3- they know what buttons to push to make you flip. <br /><br />that's what i think, anyway. :ssupreemhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16543280125797905091noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6555148914820940850.post-63007432355393054232010-03-20T18:26:47.179-04:002010-03-20T18:26:47.179-04:00Salam! I've been reading your blog for awhile,...Salam! I've been reading your blog for awhile, but never commented.<br /><br />It didn't really occur to me till now but I think the wisdom behind the hadith is that it's so hard to be polite to family and if you are it's an amazing feat. <br /><br />The only reason I can think of that it's so easy to be rude to family is that you're always around them. If someone who isn't family is annoying you, you know you won't have to put up with it for long. Whereas if my younger brother, for example, is singing some Sami Yusuf song, there's no telling if he'll ever stop (he sings in his sleep too).Farahhttp://lifesucksdealwithit.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6555148914820940850.post-21789379412304118682010-03-17T10:10:56.714-04:002010-03-17T10:10:56.714-04:00Friends can walk away. Family is here to stay. I t...Friends can walk away. Family is here to stay. I think that is why. Plus I think because you grew up together you have the ability to get under one another's skin way more than your average co-worker or pal. I agree. My sister and I can be so incredibly mean to each other but we always know we will work it out and be a part of each others lives forever.Little Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12874120641808148493noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6555148914820940850.post-61734797553148210172010-03-17T00:57:58.314-04:002010-03-17T00:57:58.314-04:00I remember when I was a teenager and I had a fight...I remember when I was a teenager and I had a fight with my sister and some unkind things were said.<br />To till very day, I still feel bad about it but we are very close now and the best of friends.<br /><br />I always want to treat my family and friends the way I want to be treated.<br /><br />I'm sure it will all be ok with your sister.<br /><br />Margie :)Margiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14433759763753850718noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6555148914820940850.post-68532424733335340952010-03-16T18:33:22.350-04:002010-03-16T18:33:22.350-04:00Nice topic...
Well I wrote a post in my blog few d...Nice topic...<br />Well I wrote a post in my blog few days ago complaining about people. They are extremely enigmatic. To me if you ask me what is the most difficult and impossible thing you ever faced in your life my answer would be getting people. I can't really get them. Sometimes they just shock me by unpredictable action. It hurts when you sympathize with someone close to you and you get shocked by kind of rude respond. And anyone has the possibility to respond you by saying sort of weird words which are really harsh and it let you in shock at the end.<br /><br />Sigh…<br />Getting people needs flexibility and internal power which makes us absorb the blown out of our faces and keep silent for a while. We have to give people chances and time to think. Keeping silent makes people feel sorry and regret what they did coz of such wisdom and cold reaction. <br /><br /> Besides we have to give ourselves a time to be silent. Anger makes people blind, we can’t really think when we pissed off and that push us to throw words ended with contriteness but after what? After hurting people? People who are so close to our souls? Sometimes harsh words hurt more than hitting and it left a scar in hearts for ages which we can’t even be erased. Apologizing does not do anything to people when we really hurt them even if they accepted it there would be wound inside. To avoid such mess and keep our tongues pure we have only one key. There is a famous quote says silence is wisdom I believe in it because it won’t force us to cross lines with people even if they do. Silence makes people look great and teaches people how to be patients.<br />Our prophet Mohammed peace be upon him said” don’t be mad, don’t be mad don’t be mad”. He refined it triple times for insurance. The point is in practicing ourselves, and believe me sometimes the outdoors relationships could be much stronger than ones connected with blood. That kind of relationship could not be gone with wind like any superficial ones. I think we just try to be good in front of outdoors but we got off our masks at homes.<br />By the way, when you really love your sister its normal thing to argue and have a fight with her but when you do try to do it politely. We are not living in heaven that is life so there is nothing perfect here but we can keep seeking the perfection at least.<br />Thaaaaanks for your great pen and thoughts sis ^^Rationalityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01206883390921160689noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6555148914820940850.post-85814262962608054292010-03-16T11:05:18.693-04:002010-03-16T11:05:18.693-04:00we have fights like that at home too. and ur right...we have fights like that at home too. and ur right.<br /><br />But i dont think every single other person thats not "family" comes and goes though. <br /><br />There are some family that I'm not even close to, and dont care to be close to.Farnnayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09833826535761502269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6555148914820940850.post-78956643002311419842010-03-16T01:07:18.074-04:002010-03-16T01:07:18.074-04:00Man, we always have fights just like that at home....Man, we always have fights just like that at home. It's always my sister or my dad. Sigh.LadyNanseihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10951313650011349110noreply@blogger.com